So one of the joys of military life so far (please pick up on sarcastic tone here) is the back and forth between D working hard and hardly working. There’s been a lot of waiting since we moved down to Pensacola, which in some ways was really nice, but its pretty tough to transition from doing practically nothing to working basically from waking up til going to sleep 7 days a week. Since API started, D has been gone for about 10hrs a day for school and spends the rest of the nights and weekends studying at home or with his study group. We do Friday date nights which helps, but its kind of hard going from probably spending too much time together to hardly spending time together at all. D has been doing great on all his tests (he has two a week) but its pretty intense. If he doesn’t get an 80 or above, then they have to roll back and join another class, which could mean several more weeks (sound familiar?). And on top of the academics he’s had PT tests and swimming tests (including swimming a mile in a flight suit – eek!). We’re both really hoping that he continues doing well so this craziness is as short as possible! As for now, I’m spending lots and lots of time with this guy:
Last week was especially rough for me because we had another tornado on Tuesday. If you haven’t heard about it, it was pretty bad – thankfully no one was killed or even seriously injured in our area, but there were a lot of homes and buildings destroyed. (You can read more about it here.) When I told D I had rescheduled my clients so I wouldn’t have to work that night, he didn’t even know what I was talking about because he was holed up in class all day. He was way too stressed with studying to really care, while I was prepping food and water and trying to figure out how to keep us and our fur babies safe. I finally convinced D to take shelter in our bathroom when the news said that a “deadly and dangerous tornado” was directly over our area of the city and the lights started flickering. We stayed in there for about 15 minutes and when we came out, found that the tornado path and damage was only a mile from our house. I felt so weird all week with how close it was. How people’s lives were completely turned upside down just a mile from us, while we just went on with going to work (driving right by the damage) and living our normal life. I know with living in this area there will definitely be more crazy weather, but I really hope we don’t see worse than this. We’re feeling very grateful to have been spared (again) from any damage. I hope we can always remember how lucky we are in so many ways.
If you’d like to donate to help the families affected by the tornado you can go to helpNWFLrecover.org